"Some
are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon
them." (Act II,
Scene v; although Malvolio says this, he does so while reading
from the letter that Maria wrote). William Shakespeare's comedy, Twelfth
Night.
In my 43 years of working life with
the Indian Army and the United Nations, I learnt only three aspects of leadership
which I always carry with me: Lead by Example, Discern the Criticality, and
Streak of Ruthlessness. Besides these three, I mostly switched off during the
leadership training and lectures. Why was it so boring? Why this subject is so
drab? I have discovered the cause. In almost all leadership related training or
exercises, we are dealing with the leadership traits, qualities and principles
followed by someone else. Never your leadership qualities are discussed. When I
went to the primary school, teacher talked about Chhatrpati Shivaji, Bhagat
Singh, Jhansi Ki Rani, Maharana Pratap and many more. When I joined Sainik
(Military) School, the talks changed to Alexander, Caesar, Hannibal, Napoleon
and others. Later in the Military Academies and schools it changed to campaigns
by the great warriors and generals. Leadership and Officer like qualities were
generally judged on the sports fields. Points were laid down for
participations. But nowhere I got an opportunity to know my intrinsic
strengths, potential and or values till I took StrengthsFinder Test in August
2015. Then only I realised that I have Learner, Achiever, Strategic, Arranger and Input as my signature themes.
It
was a great challenge to me as how to design the exercise on Leadership for the
UG students of the Christ University. We made progress on the Environmental
Support System of a SMART City… carry forward from PANCHTATVA. The exercise was
named as CHAMTKAR (means Miracle). Initially many of my colleagues with whom I
discussed this exercise, expressed their reservations that the UG Students will
not be able to comprehend leadership.
The
exercise started with a very short presentation (Without PPT), on how a leader should
bring about the Trust, Compassion, Stability and
Hope
within
his/her team. These were to be achieved by the interplay of his/her Strengths,
already discovered during Modules 1 and 2. It took some time to make them
understand, but they all caught on.
The
exercise commenced with the Eisenhower Quadrant. Each team was given a long
list of relevant to do list including their domestic issues. They were required
to put these under logically thought out Quadrants. They did a wonderful job.
They understood the utility of the Eisenhower Quadrants.
The Second and the final part was more
challenging, interesting and time consuming. They studied the book “Strengths
Based Leadership” by Tom Rath and Barry Conchie. They were guided to study the
chapters pertaining to their five themes “Leading with Your Strengths”. Later
they prepared Charts as how to lead with one of their Signature Themes for
achieving Trust, Compassion, Stability and Trust of the team. On the flip side
of the chart, they also prepared as how to achieve, above four aspects
considering at least one of the themes of a team member. Later each student was
give 3 Minutes to present their plans to the class.
Coming
back to the greatness, everyone is born great, everyone is a leader provided
he/she knows her/his strengths and leverage these to achieve their desired
goals.
In
conclusion, I would like to present the comments from Students about the
Personality Development Programme.
Solomon
Joshua
Strategic,
Intellection, Learner, Relator, Restorative
Today has been one more day which was
added to my stage fear removing process. Already my fears are gone and today
was a bonus point added. Also, sir, throughout the class it was so interesting,
motivating. I have taken my logical thinking to a whole new level after these
sessions.
Simran P
Nayak
Includer,
Restorative, Woo, Connectedness, Positivity
These days I feel I am connected to
this course. It's just not a mere course that the University has made and I'm
just doing for the University, but it means a lot to me. Personally, I believe
it's the best course one can ever take. Thank you sir, it's you and your
enthusiasm which made students like me, like it and love it. There is an
improvement in my personality.
Shwetha R
Restorative,
Ideation, Relator, Empathy, Responsibility
Thank you so much. Really frankly this
was the 1st time I spoke in front of everyone for a long time, people applauded
me, and really got to know how a leader is, how to become. You really made me
identify my strengths and made my goal more interesting to succeed it.
Shruthi
Nair
Includer,
Adaptability, Communication, Connectedness, Responsibility
The last week was indeed a productive
one. The book Strengths Based Leadership has opened my eyes to quite a few facts about
myself based on my five themes. The team I was a part of was also good. And
even this week I have made a number of people as my friends. Most importantly,
I was able to realise my calibre in terms of Communication. The environment in class was very calm and
supportive.
Shriyam
Srivastava
CONNECTEDNESS,
HARMONY, ADAPTABILITY, EMPATHY, DELIBERATIVE
This week it was presentation on my
theme about how I will lead an organisation. Though, it was for one theme, I
read about all my five themes and I think I have a fair idea on how to lead a
group of people.
Prinitha
VP
Includer,
Adaptability, Relator, Restorative, Positivity
I really enjoyed the sessions that we
had sir. The sessions were fun and we didn't even feel like we were having
education thrust upon us. The best part of this open elective is the team work.
That made the learning process actually much more enjoyable. I had a great time
with you sir. You are the very first teacher after my family who has actually
taught me lessons of life and my strengths. Thank you a lot sir. I assure you
that I will follow all your teachings in my life.
Meghna
Deka
EMPATHY,
ADAPTABILITY, RESTORATIVE, HARMONY, DEVELOPER
This week we learnt about leadership;
its importance, components and application. I'm very weak in public speaking
but I managed to give the presentation after rehearsing for it. This has really
helped me. I'm honestly loving the classes and I hope to learn more from you.
You have helped me to improve.
Ayush
Param
CONTEXT,
ANALYTICAL, INPUT, STRATEGIC, ACTIVATOR
It is impossible to emulate every
single commendable quality of every leader ever. Attempting to do so is a
fool's errand. I learned this from reading the book we were assigned. The four
qualities of Trust, Hope, and Compassion & Stability are vital, but, given
my way, I would replace compassion with Justice. I believe that a just leader
is more important than a loving or caring leader. Just my personal opinion - I
am aware that it is not supported by the data.
Aakriti
Shrestha
Restorative,
Deliberative, Harmony, Relator, Adaptability
Leadership is one quality I have been
longing to achieve. To be honest, I am really weak at public speaking but after
this week's session I not only had to speak in front of the people but also was
the first speaker. This particular activity taught me to be ready for any
challenge at any time. Apart from this week's session overall I have noticed
the change in me. I have improved a lot and changed my attitude. Thank you so
much sir for everything! I will miss you!